When a change occurs in a tribe's needs or focus and a long-standing silent member returns with a different need or understanding yikes!! all holy heck can break loose.

I and the tribe members hae definitely been experiencing this. I wish it weren't so.
I am tempted to bad mouth the trib eand such but not going to do so. I am feelign that the change in need of the tribe members is now narrow and limiting, but whiel I may say that it doesn't legitimize their desires or need. It also makes me the 'bad' poster, jostling with words and posts and discussions, supposedly sayign wrong things in too many different ways.

i hesitate to leave the tribe, things may change in a few months.. definitely not weeks, as it is a group of people whose binding theme in that tribe is one which doesn't seem to encourage growth or change.
Maybe, maybe not. Suffice to say, i have gone through enough feelings and emotions about it and shall post rarely if ever anymore. It is a waste of time to 'justify' my style or needs in wake of many negative interactions.